Eye widening is any act done to make the eyes appear bigger than normal through raising the eyebrows or lifting the eyelids. Women have also taken to the habit of plucking their eyebrows. This has the effect of creating more space around the eyes causing others to perceive them more favourably. A wider eye is more childlike and friendly. Eye widening is a positive nonverbal cue indicating that someone is observing positive stimuli, stimuli that bring them joy and happiness or surprise and shock.
It takes two. She can’t make prolonged eye contact with you if you shift your gaze. If you’re uncomfortable by her advances, feel free to look away quickly. However, if you’re interested in her, let the eye contact last for a couple seconds before you let yourself (or her!) look away.
Shakes her head “no” as she speaks. A great way to read female body language is to watch facial expressions. If a girl makes a positive statement while shaking her head “no,” don’t believe her. The same goes with the opposite. If she’s saying “no” with her words but nodding her head in a “yes” gesture, you’re spot on that she is ready, willing and able.
In short arching her back means she’s sticking her breasts and bum out. That, in turn, means that whether you see her from the front, side, or back, you’re getting a view of her female assets. Even someone who doesn’t have a J-Lo bum or Pamela Anderson rack will do this as it’s a natural instinct to show off their body.
I suddenly found myself noticing people at crosswalk across the street and very clearly notice what people were doing in their cars out of the far corner of my eye and to this day my brain still maintains this ability clear as the day I trained it.
After a few minutes, you can initiate flirting again. If she still responds negatively, you may be better off walking away. My rule of thumb is if you get 2-3 consecutive bad responses, she’s probably not interested. And if she sternly tells you at any moment to stop touching her, I advise you to listen.
Watch her hands. Women touch their erogenous zones when they are very interested and are absolutely flirting with you. They will touch their lips and may apply lipstick when they know you are watching. When they touch their necks, they are feeling sexy, and if they rub their thigh as they cross and uncross their legs, they are sending flirtatious signals.
The cool thing about positive and negative body language is that you can actually use it to create attraction with women. If a woman is giving you attitude or saying things you don’t like you can respond simply with a bit of negative body language. Angle your body away and let her see that she’s losing your attention. This shows you’re a high-value guy who simply doesn’t put up with that kind of behavior. As a result you’re going to come across as that much more attractive to her and any other woman watching.
She wants to make herself look more attractive to you. The girl in question might be nervous and wants to make sure she looks good for you. Then again, she might know she looks good but wants to draw attention to the area she’s “fixing.”
The tilting of the head is a prime indication of interest, girls will often do this in conversational encounters to represent engagement and acknowledgement as well as revealing the neck which shows that she is more comfortable around you.
Girls, some guys won’t like you back and won’t appreciate the flirting. You will know that this happens if you laugh at something he says or if you do some kind of flirtatious movement, and they look at you strangely. Guys, don’t be afraid to say thanks but no thanks to the girl who’s flirting with you. Then she won’t have to waste her time flirting with you anymore and she can flirt with someone else.
Take note of little cues like briefly placing her hand on your knee, touching your arm, lightly touching you when she laughs and so on. Any form of contact is good, even one that is accidental because you can’t put it past her to ‘accidentally’ brush up against you just so she can touch your abs. [Read: The subtle art of flirting by touch and arousing a girl]
Some of the most common ways women indicate sexual interest, and the first class of signals, are displays of submission. They include body lowering or body shrinking, childlike playfulness, dilated pupils, eye widening, neck and wrist exposure, coy glances, smiling, giggling and laughing, touching the neck, head tilting, shoulder shrugs, bowing the forehead, downcast eyes, turning the toes in called pigeon toes or “tibial torsion.”
If you focus too much on their body language signals, you and/or the girl may feel uncomfortable. It is useful to be able to read female body language signals, but it is equally useful to learn how to get your body to send the right signals and eliminate the wrong signals. See below for some tel tale female body language signals.
Fiddling with jewelry. When a woman is around someone that she’s interested in, her heart beats faster. This makes her feel nervous excitement. As a sort of outlet for that tension, she’ll twist her rings, play with her earring, or tug at her necklace. She may also bounce her foot or leg to get rid of the extra energy.
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Of course, many women tend to sit cross legged and, in fact, crossing and uncrossing her legs, might be a sign a woman is drawing attention to them. In other words, she wants you to think of her legs, meaning she wants you to think about sex. However, if she closes off her whole body, then it’s an indicator that she wants to close herself off, or protect herself from you.
Male flirting body language is usually not so rich. Normally, men display signals that display power, wealth and status and are not very good at sending or receiving signals used in courtship game; mostly they simply react to what they see. A man might straighten his tie, touch his watch, and brush imaginary dust of his shoulder.
She seems physically uncomfortable around you. A woman who is interested in you will face you directly, lean in toward you and relax her body. Folded arms, a stiff back and leaning away from you are signs that she wants out of the situation.
A few weeks later, I’m sitting in a sunny conference room on the campus of Stanford University, surrounded by MBAs, VPs, and CFOs—all of us hoping to become more confident and assertive. Our guide is psychologist Deborah Gruenfeld, PhD, an expert in the body language of power. (Today’s lesson is an abbreviated version of her ten-week course, one of the most popular electives at Stanford’s Graduate School of Business.) Standing at the front of the room in dressy jeans and a stylish velvet jacket, Gruenfeld looks authoritative yet approachable. And she wastes no time getting down to business, launching right into a lecture on, of all things, how to sit.
People don’t touch people they don’t like. So, if a girl touches you, you’ll know for certain that she likes you. You may also wish to pay attention to whether she does this to others or not, as some people are touchy-feely with everyone. But if it’s just you, this is a great sign she likes only you.
While the neck is not inherently sexy on its own, it is a way that people signal trust when facing authority. The neck contains many nerve endings making them highly sensitive. A woman’s neck is also far less robust, more dainty, longer than men’s, with less musculature. The neck is an extremely vulnerable part of our bodies which we defend rigorously if attacked, and the genes we have as a result of eons of evolutionary history supports this. One well placed bite to the throat by cat like predators instantly immobilizes their prey.
Playing with objects. When a woman strokes the stem of a wine glass or runs her fingers along the rim of her water cup, she’s trying to get your If the movements are slow and controlled, she’s likely interested. If, however, she’s tapping the glass and pursing her lips, she probably can’t wait to get out of there.
It can be difficult at times to discern if a woman really likes you or not. Is she actually attracted to you, or is she just being polite? Most single men would like to find out before they make a fool of themselves. One of the best ways to determine this is through the body language of women.
When we are physically attracted to someone, we tend to blush. Not necessarily the kind of full-blown blushing we do when feeling embarrassed (unless you’re outright talking about sex, or love), but our face goes one shade darker due to the attraction, or happiness. The happier, or more turned on, we get, the more our cheeks (and sometimes neck and chest) color. That means that if her face goes redder as the night goes on (and it’s not due to heat and alcohol), she is feeling good around you!
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Look for mirroring gestures from the girl you are talking to. Mirroring can signify the rapport between you, a sign that you two are getting along quite well. It happens when the person subtly copies the other person’s body language. Examples are leaning towards one another, crossing or uncrossing legs and arm movements. If she moves farther back away from you, take this as a sign she wants to escape from you or reject you.
The flight attendant thought he liked to drink wine so she brought him wine. He repeated his signaling to the woman and she brought him a different type of wine. Eventually, all types of wine available on the plane were presented to him and every beautiful attendant have even lined up in front of him to assist him but of course, it wasn’t wine he liked to drink so he shook his head.
Note – Whenever she comes sits close to you, find reasons to touch you, brushes herself against you that means she is aroused and wants to have some sensual-time. All of these things tell that there is something in you that she likes.
Note: Look for 3 or 4 signals that convey a similar message or the one-off inconsistent signal. Also, consciously practice reading and doing some of the signals as much as you can. Learning, as you practice, what works and what doesn’t work for you will help you gain confidence to use reading female body language techniques consciously.
Touching of any kind generally indicates interest. Much like smiling, it’s a very clear expression of body language that’s almost always unambiguous. Even if she’s touching you in an “accidental” way, if she doesn’t move away, that means she’s not touching you by accident at all. Pay attention to this. It’s one of the clear signs of female attraction that a lot of men miss.