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People’s pupils grow with interest. They become larger when they see something they like, enjoy, or are aroused by. When someone is aroused, their brain is being stimulated which then causes the pupil to open up allowing more light to come in which in turn allows them to see better.
Another body language sign that can be used to gauge how interested she is in you is flared nostrils. When a person flairs their nostrils, it shows they are excited, physiologically aroused, and are preparing for something physical. In the right context flared nostrils may be a signal that she is ready and willing to get physical with you and is a sign she wants to be kissed.
Look for mirroring gestures from the girl you are talking to. Mirroring can signify the rapport between you, a sign that you two are getting along quite well. It happens when the person subtly copies the other person’s body language. Examples are leaning towards one another, crossing or uncrossing legs and arm movements. If she moves farther back away from you, take this as a sign she wants to escape from you or reject you.
This gesture is performed by a person with a soft side. It is given by someone who is prepared to let their guard down to someone else and take on a smaller overall profile. It can be as subtle as a small lift in the shoulders or could be a full shrug and hold of the shoulders. It can often happen very quickly though, and can occur in accompaniment with an eyebrow flash as well as eye contact.
If a woman slowly touches her own body, or face, in a seductive manner, it makes you think of doing the same. In other words: it’s one of the oldest tricks in the seduction book to make a man think of you in a sexual manner. If she is aware of seduction techniques, she might very well try this one on you if she likes you!
Then why use Axe? There’s still an attraction there that’s from the sense of smell. I for one am still a strong believer in pheremones. (BTW, Axe is horrible, me and all the girls I know think it smells like pepper)
She seems physically uncomfortable around you. A woman who is interested in you will face you directly, lean in toward you and relax her body. Folded arms, a stiff back and leaning away from you are signs that she wants out of the situation.
Gravity-defying gestures can be seen in multiple parts of the body. For instance, one common body language example of a gravity-defying gesture is the eyebrow flash. If a girl is excited her eyebrows will automatically shoot up for a brief instant (you often see this when someone is surprised/happy to see you).
When she’s touching you, think about why she’s doing it. If there’s no real reason other than attraction, escalate that touch. Start with something small like touching her hands, arms or upper back and see where it goes from there.
Keep in mind that most of these things aren’t conscious actions for women. Although some, like eye contact and smiling, are always conscious, things like fidgeting and mirroring your movements are most likely involuntary things, so try not to read too much into things. Also don’t go too hard.
Smart women can start a conversation with strangers simply by eye contact. But it is a very special type of eye contact and men always fall for this type eye contact from women. Both men and women know that a lingering eye contact with a slight smile is an invitation for a closer connection.
Note – Whenever she comes sits close to you, find reasons to touch you, brushes herself against you that means she is aroused and wants to have some sensual-time. All of these things tell that there is something in you that she likes.
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If you walked up to a woman, started talking to her by raising your pitch, batting your eyelashes and twirling your hair, she might think you were a little strange to say the least. And while there’s absolutely nothing threatening about a woman touching you, you touching her the wrong way can get you slapped or worse. That’s because men and women each have distinct ways they flirt. What works for women doesn’t work for men and vice versa.
The problem is that many guys interpret smiles and staring in the wrong context and confuse flirting with friendliness (mainly because males have 15 times more testosterone and think everything in sex terms) so it’s best if you all those signals in groups of gestures. The following are some of the most popular signs of attraction used by women:
Hugging herself around the waist means she self-soothes. There is something that made her upset. Whether it is something you did to make her feel hurt or some other thing, she is trying to soothe herself from the hurt through this gesture.
Facial Pedestal: When a woman joins her hands together by putting one over the other and resting her face on them, it doesn’t have anything to do with the “Head Support” boredom gesture. In fact this gesture reveals the total opposite meaning as it means she likes the company of the man and wants to display her face on a pedestal to gain his attention and let him admire her. Giving a compliment and the use of some flattery in those moments seems to get many men very far.
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We must also be careful of signals that are evolving during the development of a new relationship. A woman might initially be interested in a man and give off positive cues of attraction, but once communication is established, she could change her mind and so change her postures. The impressions we make on people are continuously changing and so is the body language that people are emitting. Therefore, we must be constantly measuring interest and disinterest. We also must watch for mixed signals.
Ive often observed in myself that when we seek to justify our decisions of doing or not doing something, we generalize things in extremes like “this always happens to me” or “all men are jerks” but its just a mental comfort mechanism.
As usual, I dug into the research literature. As it turns out, a few pioneering researchers have covertly watched women flirting, in bars and on campuses, to answer these very questions. Through their observations, they have found a number of nonverbal behaviors and body language cues that women use to signal their potential interest to men, and motivate men to approach them, too.
Note: Look for 3 or 4 signals that convey a similar message or the one-off inconsistent signal. Also, consciously practice reading and doing some of the signals as much as you can. Learning, as you practice, what works and what doesn’t work for you will help you gain confidence to use reading female body language techniques consciously.