For me, attraction is MUCH more about things in common, intelligence, humour, honesty, playfulness and willingness to learn, and the confidence that when an obstacle is set before them, they know they can overcome/resolve it by keeping at it. Confidence in oneself is hot.
If a man sees himself in a situation where he has a woman moving away from him every time he tries to talk with her and come closer to her, he needs to learn how to read female body language attraction right away for help. This situation is a little bit similar to the situation I just mentioned above, and the reason for this case is also the same – may be the biggest chance is that he is actually not her favorite type!
The second thing that makes this approaching-a-woman action scary is that all the other guys are watching. If she rejects him, then all the guys will see him as a “failed hunter” and chuckle. That is instinctual hostility in men’s DNA that comes along with an unconscious desire to see him fail! That makes the odds better for their own success in getting a mate! This comes in men’s DNA from millions of years of competing for breeding rights with the females. This attitude is stupid in today’s world, but these instincts are ingrained deeply in the male old brain and come along with the testosterone. Some guys even turn it into a game of “dare” for their buddies so they can see them fail.
Often when a woman is in close proximity to a man that she finds attractive, she’ll stand tall with a slight arc to her back. Women do this subconsciously, and sometimes consciously, to enhance the size of her breasts. Again, something that we men are evolutionarily programmed to find attractive.
In earlier posts, I have discussed how to flirt and be attractive in general, and I have shared research on how to get a guy’s (or gal’s) attention. Yet I still get emails from women asking how to let a guy know they are interested — and get him to approach them. I also get emails from men who want tips, beyond basic body language cues, that help them know a woman is really interested in them.
Most female sexual signals have some component that is rooted in appearing submissive. By displaying in a certain way, a woman is telling men that she is willing to head to a man’s dominance. Others signals are designed to showcase the physical assets of a woman, primarily her youth and health. The final category includes cues that indicate approach is permitted and encouraged. These are the cues that draw men in and give them permission to court.
It may be difficult memorizing all of these body language cues from girls and women that may reveal that she really likes you. Better yet, spot them sooner, so some other guy doesn’t ask her out first. It doesn’t matter how she may be intentionally trying to keep her cool around you either, her subconscious body cues are sure to give her away at some point. Be sure pay attention and soon you’ll have a date for the next concert, event, or special occasion that you wanted to attend.
Adam became so inundated with requests for his coaching that the waiting list grew to over a year. So he shot a collection of videos using models to show exactly what he does and how he does it and put it all together in the course called “Kinetic Attraction.” The intro video to Adam’s course is what you’ll be seeing when you click the image above.
#14 Bats her eyes. Yes, a woman batting her eyelashes at a man may be a stereotypical sign that she’s flirting but hey, it’s not classified as a stereotype for nothing. Be sure to know the difference between a flirtatious bat and an I’ve-got-something-in-my-eye bat.
The leg twine is one of the most appealing sitting positions for women. It occurs when one leg is tightly pressed against the other making it appear extremely toned. Coupled with legs pressed together tight, woman, during seduction, will rub her upper thigh. This adds an extra element of intensity to her appeal for approach and shows men the type of touching she is expecting and imagining.
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Tight Legs: Unlike other crossed leg gestures that show negativity, defensiveness or uncertainty, when women cross their legs in a flirtation environment and don’t use other negative gestures such as crossing their arms, this indicates the female is trying to draw attention to her legs by tightly pressuring one leg firmly against the other to emphasize their high muscle tone. Psychiatrist Dr Albert Scheflen goes on to even suggest that such a gesture is the position a body takes when the person is preparing for sexual performance.