The second thing that makes this approaching-a-woman action scary is that all the other guys are watching. If she rejects him, then all the guys will see him as a “failed hunter” and chuckle. That is instinctual hostility in men’s DNA that comes along with an unconscious desire to see him fail! That makes the odds better for their own success in getting a mate! This comes in men’s DNA from millions of years of competing for breeding rights with the females. This attitude is stupid in today’s world, but these instincts are ingrained deeply in the male old brain and come along with the testosterone. Some guys even turn it into a game of “dare” for their buddies so they can see them fail.
Watch her hands. Women touch their erogenous zones when they are very interested and are absolutely flirting with you. They will touch their lips and may apply lipstick when they know you are watching. When they touch their necks, they are feeling sexy, and if they rub their thigh as they cross and uncross their legs, they are sending flirtatious signals.
Insightful Purse: Three words that are guaranteed to humiliate any man anywhere? … ‘Hold my purse’. But what men don’t realize is that this simple action can speak vastly of how a women feels towards them. A woman’s purse is one of the most personal things they own, in a sense, it has passed from being an accessory to becoming an extension of a woman as it carries all of her most intimate mysteries that most of us men live in fear of knowing … heck I’m afraid if I stick my hand in one I’ll come out with a finger missing or something. When women accept and feel attracted towards a guy, they will put the purse close to him as opposed to hiding it some place further away. The woman might start softly touching their purse as they talk to the guy, and when they begin to feel a stronger connection they will even entrust him with holding the purse, or looking inside and searching for something.
A sideways glance over a raised shoulder highlights curves and the roundness of the female face. This signifies estrogen and exposes the vulnerability of the neck and releases pheromones. Women instinctively do this when trying to flirt.
“Sometimes a stretch is just a stretch. Don’t assume she likes you… Unless she looks you in the eyes or smiles,” says Spira. “If she does that, say something flirty like, ‘Looks like you could use a coffee’ or ‘Is it yoga time?’”
After a woman starts giving you signs of interest one of the most important things that will create success is how quickly you act. I have met many guys who consider it a sort of “done deal” once a woman is interested in and attracted to them. This is not the case at all.
Next time you go out, try and pay more attention for signs of female attraction. What is she doing to signal her attraction to you? Nothing? Something? A lot of something? Knowing how to see signs of female attraction can do a lot to boost your confidence when it comes to talking to woman. Once you know the signs, you won’t ever have to guess again.
Men are much more visual than women and get a hormonal surge just by looking at a healthy woman — either alive or in a photo. That is why pornography prospers as men’s target market. So smart women use many visual body language female cues to attract attention by moving and preening their bodies.
Whether she moves her hand slightly closer across the table, she moves her legs so close they almost touch yours under the table, or she moves to stand in your personal space when discussing something, it’s a sign she’s comfortable to be physically close to you.
And I’ll do it for less than the cost of a cosmopolitan. Even if you’ve never heard a single fact about body language before, you’ll find out in this book what a powerful tool it can be both for you and for her.
If any man ever finds himself in this situation, there would be a big chance that she will act angry and bitchy with him as he most likely does not have guts to immediately approach that woman right after he has found her.
Smart women can start a conversation with strangers simply by eye contact. But it is a very special type of eye contact and men always fall for this type eye contact from women. Both men and women know that a lingering eye contact with a slight smile is an invitation for a closer connection.
For a smooth relationship with your significant other, it is important for you to look past what her words say. Instead, you need to focus on her body language and look for cues what she really is trying to tell you. Because:
The leg twine is one of the most appealing sitting positions for women. It occurs when one leg is tightly pressed against the other making it appear extremely toned. Coupled with legs pressed together tight, woman, during seduction, will rub her upper thigh. This adds an extra element of intensity to her appeal for approach and shows men the type of touching she is expecting and imagining.
From a woman’s perspective, confidence, comfort and security are her top priorities in searching for a man. Fortunately for those of us who know what we’re doing women are excellent judges of real, natural behavior and if you are being fake there is good chance she pick it out a mile away; she is always going to be trying to figure out what is going on inside your head.
The reason I’ve got this book – is my shyness. Yes, I admit this part of me and actually, I try to fight it. Communications with friends and family – is one thing, but relationships with my boyfriend is another. This book helps me with self-discovering and now I can feel myself absolutely unselfconscious with him. Can say it’s easy but the prize for getting this right is worth the effort.
Keep in mind who the person in question is; if she’s already taken, this may be how she acts daily, or she may be looking to cheat. If said woman leads you on in this way, looking to cheat, things will not turn out well!
The more engaged a woman is the more attention you’ll get from her body. What you want to look for then, is that her head, torso, and feet are all facing you. All of that together is a powerful signal she likes you/the conversation you’re having. However if her head and torso are facing you but one or both feet are pointed elsewhere, that body language is a sign she’s not fully engaged. (To learn more about body language and attraction, check out the Pickup Podcast toolbox episode on how to attract women with body language)
Just like positive body language barriers can be a great way to see if a girl is gaining or losing interest in you. If she enjoys talking to you, feels comfortable with you, and is hoping to connect with you, then she’ll start removing barriers. If she’s feeling uncomfortable or distant, then she’s going to construct barriers between you.
Eye contact by itself might not mean much, but eye contact and a torrent of personal questions probably does. Fixing herself might just mean she’s self-conscious, but preening while laughing at everything that you say is a dead giveaway. Standing close to you might mean the room is crowded, but standing on top of you while gazing up is another sure sign of attraction.
Women find men who can make them laugh and smile attractive. By smiling more and telling more jokes, you can force women to find you more attractive. The more you smile, the more others will too. Women also tend to smile more at those they like. If a woman makes a point to smile at you every time she sees you, then she is probably interested in you.
Gauge her giggle factor. Take notice of how often she smiles or laughs around you comparatively to other people. Often times, a woman who’s interested in you will find it hard to stop laughing in your presence. This may be during a conversation with you, during which she’ll make lots of eye contact, smile, and giggle or laugh at even the most pitiful jokes, or it may be simply when she’s in the same room with you. Look also for overly loud, boisterous behavior when she’s engaged in a different conversation in the same room; it’s a sure sign she wants you to notice her.
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Not all the sexual gestures performed subconsciously mean that she wants to have intercourse with you- it just means that she’s interested in you, and sex appeal is the brain’s natural response to attraction.