Each gender has a different body-language and female body language secrets are different than that are of men. If you feel your girl isn’t being genuine to you, you are most probably right. Women are usually not good at hiding their feelings for a long time especially when they are angry or upset.
One of the most popular and well-known female’s attraction signs through body language telling a man that she is willing for a kiss from that man is when she starts looking at the man’s eyes directly, most commonly at the same time, she also probably starts looking at his mouth. This is called “triangular gazing” as her eye contacts slowly going from the man’s right eye to his left eye, and then slowly going from the eyes to his mouth all form a triangle shape. Knowing this tip on how to read female body language attraction and facial expressions, you will be able to get higher success rate and chances to approach and sexually seduce the woman you want the right way and on time.
I used to experience aggressive approaches from women when I first started dancing in 2014 also, like right infront of me all of a sudden on many occasions. Thankfully, in the last year, its turned from aggressive pursuance, to aggressive mocking in more of a trying to physically provoke me kind of sense.
A woman might say she’s a great time, but if she’s grimacing, that’s a pretty clear indication on the part of her body language that she’s not. On the other hand, you won’t have to ask how she’s feeling if you look at her face while you two are hanging out together. All you have to do is look for the smile, a genuine smile that takes up her whole face and you’re going to know what the score is. Smiling is one of the most obvious pieces of women body language to read and one of the most unambiguous.
The fairer sex isn’t the only one who has perfected non-verbal flirting skills. Men also know how to light the sparks of intent in a person they want to get to know. Let’s take a look at some of the ways men use body language when they flirt.
Whether she moves her hand slightly closer across the table, she moves her legs so close they almost touch yours under the table, or she moves to stand in your personal space when discussing something, it’s a sign she’s comfortable to be physically close to you.
Some women are overtly flirtatious, but others don’t make it too obvious that they are flirting or interested. It can be a challenge for some guys to figure it out. With a little reading and experience, you’ll easily be able to figure it out.
From a woman’s perspective, confidence, comfort and security are her top priorities in searching for a man. Fortunately for those of us who know what we’re doing women are excellent judges of real, natural behavior and if you are being fake there is good chance she will pick it out a mile away; she is always going to be trying to figure out what is going on inside your head.
Have you ever noticed the size of a newborn’s eyes in relation to their body and face? What about cartoon characters? Eye widening evokes protective feelings in others and women will use this to gain sympathy from men during courtship. Research has shown that when women widen their eyes, men release hormones, the same hormones that motive them to protect and defend others.
Above is a picture of a woman wearing an average pair of jeans and yet the way she has placed her hands is a powerful “turn-on” for some men. The reason is that her hands are creating a frame for her Vagina. Although sometimes mistaken for “male” gesture, her hands are actually “spelling-out” what’s on her mind. Her female body language is actually saying: “This is the part of me that I want you to notice. I’m telling you that this area of my body is available for the right man!” It is a confident signal indicating aggressive sexual availability.
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The third way a woman indicates sexual interest are proximity related and the desire to increase proximity. These cues indicate that approach by men is welcomed and permitted or that courting which is already in progress may increase in intensity. This includes leaning in, the room encompassing glance, crossing the legs toward, pointing toward with the fingers and toes, torso orientated toward rather than away, fluttering of the eyes, high blink rate and high chew rate (if eating), increased touching, hugging with the hips pressed against hips, shallow breathing and panting, flared nostrils, and mirroring.
Check out her heartbeat. If you are comfortable enough with each other to cuddle, put your head on her chest. If her heart is racing, she’s really interested. If you’re not comfortable enough to get close to her heart, check out her wrist pulse. Lightly grab her hand and rest a finger on her wrist. This is difficult to master, but if you can pin down a racing heart, you have a pretty good sign that she’s very into you.
She will tease you and get close enough that you’re almost touching, then pull away, highlighting the obvious void between you. She’ll also make an effort to sit or stand next to you and find little excuses to engage you in conversation so that she can get close.
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Note physical contact. Everyone has a personal “bubble” of about 18 inches (45.7 cm). If she gets into your personal space, or even finds excuses to touch you, you can bet she’s interested. Be ready for any “tests” she might make for herself—stepping into your personal space to let someone walk past, touching your arm as a condolence when you’re sad, or putting her hand on your knee to emphasize that she finds you funny are all quick breakdowns of the physical barriers to see how you react.
In the mind of women, she has given off enough nonverbal cues, and has incited interest through nice dress, make-up, and cues of submissiveness, then the rest if up to him. From there, the signal must be received and decoded. The bravest of men blessed with confidence, charisma and charm will succeed in approach and solicitation. From a woman’s perspective, she feels rejected if the signals are not acted upon. She believes that she is courageous in sending signals and also thinks she is being obvious and overt, despite what a man might think. To her, eye contact toward a man of interest is risky and also direct and she fully expects you to empathize with her on this “emotional” message. If her nonverbal screams do not lead to approach, then you will be cast aside as an unworthy mate. In her view, she is a prize, one worth fighting for, pursing and claiming. Courtship is a measure of a man’s strength and weaknesses – its very nature is to weed the good from the bad, the valued from the value-less.