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The most aggressive signals of male flirting body language, include thumbs-in-belt gestures that convey authority, confidence and draws attention to his crotch area. He may also turn his body towards her, and point his foot towards her. On top of this, he may hold her gaze longer than it feels comfortable (see Eye Reading in Body Language). If he is sitting down, he may also spread his legs to emphasize his crotch. In fact, he may adjust his crotch right there in public – an attempt to assert his masculinity in front of the woman he desires.
Do you ever wish there was a magic wand that would make you more attractive to the opposite sex, or at least help you understand who is attracted to you? Well, it’s no magic but a science. Here’s how men and women can learn to master the art of love.
This is a great book for men wanting to find out if a female is really into you. By just following there body language a man can learn a lot from a female. This book provides an introduction on what to look out for: eyes, surrounds, touching, smile, legs, feet, and the other parts of the body. Knowing what to look out for, will give you a greater advantage to your peers who are not aware of female body language.
It is an age old question: How can I understand woman better? This question intrigues many and the answer eludes just the same. In most instances men are left scratching their heads in wonder, while waiting for the answer to drop out of mid-air. What if there was a book – a tool – to help us in answering some of these complex truths?
When she looks squarely in the eyes, everything that comes out of her mouth is true. Also, she won’t look away either. This way you can easily tell that whatever she is saying is important and want you to have a good listen to it.
Many assume if a woman invests $10,000 in a boob job she’s obviously looking for compliments. That can certainly be true. “Yes, I want compliments! Absolutely,” laughs Michelle, who got her breasts augmented to a size 34DD.
In a few moments, you can casually look up to see if he is approaching or is still there watching you. If he repeatedly glances in your direction, then he has great interest in you but he needs to work up some courage to take the risk of approaching you. A smile from you at this point will greatly help him to get moving.
She wants to make herself look more attractive to you. The girl in question might be nervous and wants to make sure she looks good for you. Then again, she might know she looks good but wants to draw attention to the area she’s “fixing.”
It’s like her free will to conceal her attraction from you is stripped away and she her mating instincts obligate her to tell you that she is attracted to you. These tells are one of God, the universe or whatever’s greatest gifts to man.
First I retreat to a porta-potty. Hopping up and down (and wondering what it would take to tip this sucker over), I shake my arms and exhale my “ha-ha-has.” A few minutes later, the pit in my stomach has disappeared and both my body and mind are more relaxed. Striding back toward the diamond to watch the last inning, I try to walk with an assertive posture, keeping my head level, my eyes straight ahead.
To help you deal with this situation, I suggest that you should avoid a common mistake that many men make – men often approach women in a way that may tell her clearly and immediately that “this man is trying to pick me up” obviously trying to pick her up.
Remember – There is no escaping from the reality, she will not get better herself. You should make an effort, try to get things sort out. Remember what you could have done wrong or said that she might not have liked. Even if you do not recall anything like that, you should apologize to her.
One of the most “painful” female body language signs showing the disinterest is whenever you try to talk with her and come closer to her, the girl you want to hang out with always brings about one of her friends and lets that one stand in between her and you.
This is a classic and is perhaps the most common of flirting and attraction signals. It indicates a submissive, interested and alluring mood on the part of the woman doing it. Most importantly it is “shorthand” for: “I’ve noticed you and I like what I see. I can’t look away so I’m sneaking another look. My Smile is to let you know I’m feeling good and want you to know it.” Generally the gesture is quite quick and meant to attract attention. If the man doesn’t get it after several attempts then the woman usually gives up on him as “just too stupid to mate with”.
So, look at woman’s overall personality. Then add up the different signals she’s sending you. What she says and what she does. That will give you a totality; a true picture of whether she’s interested in you, or not. As well as, hopefully why she’s interested in you — whether for a one night stand, to get something from you, or to date you.
“Sometimes a stretch is just a stretch. Don’t assume she likes you… Unless she looks you in the eyes or smiles,” says Spira. “If she does that, say something flirty like, ‘Looks like you could use a coffee’ or ‘Is it yoga time?’”
Playing with objects. When a woman strokes the stem of a wine glass or runs her fingers along the rim of her water cup, she’s trying to get your attention. If the movements are slow and controlled, she’s likely interested. If, however, she’s tapping the glass and pursing her lips, she probably can’t wait to get out of there.
“It is concise, well-structured, and gives valid information that a purchaser of this book would be looking for. There is no wool over the eyes here – my smile says I like it, my lips say it is a must read! A++”
Psychologists believe that people often transfer inner feelings to external objects. So by stroking the stem of a wine glass (for example) a woman is using female body language to say “stroke me”. By running her a pen across her lips she is saying “kiss me”. These female body language signals should not be confused with “agitation” gestures that indicate that the woman would rather be somewhere else. The difference is in the speed with which they are performed. Slow and sensual is good – fast and “jerky” is bad. Wine glasses, table ornaments, sun glasses and pens are common objects used for “toying”.
A woman may become suddenly childlike. For example, she could begin to tease or tickle a man, sneak up from behind and steal a hat or other belonging. She might also sneak up from behind and cover a man’s eyes, as just a few examples.
Is she dangling her shoe from her toe? Perhaps she lets it drop off her foot completely. This is her way of being coy with you. She may also be becoming aroused, and wants to get rid of an article of clothing.
From another perspective, many men are not very good at picking up and correctly interpreting subtle signals of female body language, especially if it was very subtle. They generally have 10 to 20 times more testosterone than women and they may mistake friendly smiles for sexual interest. In addition to that, many ladies like to send contradicting signals even when they are interested. This lets them gain some time to evaluate the men. Due to this conflicting information, some men will get confused and won’t make their approach at all, regardless of what signals are being sent out.
Not all women are like this- maybe she’s just looking for a one-night-stand, or perhaps she’s just really airheaded. Some women will act more tough around the people they’re interested in, and not so much like the examples provided. Keep watch- maybe they act differently when they’re not near you!
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Remember that some women (and people trained in sales) are touchy by nature. They naturally touch your arm so as to make a point, or hug you to the point of crushing you when saying goodbye. It’s their natural way of being. They wouldn’t do it unless they feel comfortable with you, but it’s not necessarily a sign of flirting.