For a smooth relationship with your significant other, it is important for you to look past what her words say. Instead, you need to focus on her body language and look for cues what she really is trying to tell you. Because:
In this approaching-a-woman action, the man gives a woman stranger the power to publicly judge him and announce her opinion to the world! She can indicate that he is looking “good and desirable”. Or she can reject him as the worst sleazeball, scumbag, and bag-of-crap in the Universe! And everyone there will see her decision of what he is. That is a scary and powerless feeling! Many guys won’t even play that game and just get drunk instead.
The most aggressive signals of male flirting body language, include thumbs-in-belt gestures that convey authority, confidence and draws attention to his crotch area. He may also turn his body towards her, and point his foot towards her. On top of this, he may hold her gaze longer than it feels comfortable (see Eye Reading in Body Language). If he is sitting down, he may also spread his legs to emphasize his crotch. In fact, he may adjust his crotch right there in public – an attempt to assert his masculinity in front of the woman he desires.
Observing men’s body language to see their patterns of flirting gestures wasn’t as appealing as watching women’s for some reason. Men don’t appear to have as many flirting signs – perhaps this could be due to our stiff nature where our bodies aren’t as flexible (as our ancestors main concern was to hunt and develop strong muscles for survival, so our main asset when it came to finding a mate was the display of our big muscles, tall stature and large crotch to the female). I found it fun to analyze this masculine behaviour nonetheless. When women interact with men and women alike they are emotional, they talk about their feelings or they share their worries – with male interactions on the other hand, it is different. From a young age when interacting with other men, males tend to experience a kind of platonic pride oriented love for each other, where each male has to prove who is the most dominant male of the group by impressing the rest. Any display of sensitivity can be seen as a weakness (which was a vulnerability in the eyes of our ancestors primitive enemies), so their interactions with other men involved the passing of straight information, facts and solutions to problems (notice how women have better handwriting than men? Men just want to write the information down quickly while women take their time). Guys understand that they have to be more sensitive when in the dating game, but sadly after conquering the heart of the female and making sure of it (such as through marriage), they will gradually return to their true nature of facts and information, becoming less involved in dealing with that sensitive side they had to bring out.
Even the ancients claimed that you have to pay attention to a woman’s gestures to uncover whether she is interested. Unlike men, who display no more than 10 or 15 signs that they’re interested, women have over 50 gestures that they use to flirt with. This article will teach you the most important ones.
#3 Gets physical. Similar to the point above, women only touch people they like. Come to think of it, this is the case for everyone on planet Earth. If she starts getting physical with you, you can be sure that she is showing interest.
There are females that are there to use men, and there are those out there that are meek and submissive and put up with everything you throw at them prepared to be abused. Neither of these situations is a healthy option.
The human body is pretty hairless. Other than a gene manipulated cat and near extinct shrew; there are no other mammals that are as hairless as humans. (We don’t include fish, reptiles or birds in this analogy.) Long, flowing hair has always been a sign of feminine health and thus sexuality and child bearing ability. By tossing her hair a woman is essentially saying: “look at me and my suitability. I am happy, confident and very healthy!” Long hair is feminine while short hair is masculine. If this wasn’t the case why do so many (male-orientated) lesbians shave their hair as a statement?
Not all women are like this- maybe she’s just looking for a one-night-stand, or perhaps she’s just really airheaded. Some women will act more tough around the people they’re interested in, and not so much like the examples provided. Keep watch- maybe they act differently when they’re not near you!
Licks her lips. Unless you’ve been eating greasy food, you can take lip licking as a positive sign she is interested in you. When she uses her tongue to moisten her lips, you can take this female body language to the bank. Chewing the lips is also a female body language sign that she’s considering you to be yummy. Unless you blow what comes after, the girl finds you mighty tasty.
The eyes averted downward evoke a protective response from others. They say “I’m shy and I’m submitting to you because I’m attracted to you” or “You’re the boss and I’m looking down because you are dominant and I feel threatened by you and respect you.”
Have you ever noticed how when you’re hanging out with a group of close friends that you sometimes start mirroring their bodily actions? Psychologists actually have a term for this called “postural echo.” This is a subconscious reaction that indicates comfort and rapport and, in the case of a woman you are flirting with, attraction. Lean in and notice if she leans as well. Pick up your drink and watch to see if she picks hers up too. If she does, this is a strong sign that she’s attracted to you.
Sorry, I forgot to mention, she stared half at me and downwards, and was biting her finger nails as I was closing in on walking past her drive way as she stood there and I was delivering – thankfully not to her address today. it would have been uncomfortable for me otherwise.
Shakes her head “no” as she speaks. A great way to read female body language is to watch facial expressions. If a girl makes a positive statement while her head “no,” don’t believe her. The same goes with the opposite. If she’s saying “no” with her words but nodding her head in a “yes” gesture, you’re spot on that she is ready, willing and able.
A woman might say she’s having a great time, but if she’s grimacing, that’s a pretty clear indication on the part of her body language that she’s not. On the other hand, you won’t have to ask how she’s feeling if you look at her face while you two are hanging out together. All you have to do is look for the smile, a genuine smile that takes up her whole face and you’re going to know what the score is. Smiling is one of the most obvious pieces of women body language to read and one of the most unambiguous.
For example, a girl might mirror your body language. If you all of the sudden cross your arms, she will too. If you take a drink of your water at dinner, she does right after. If you look across the room away from her, she’ll turn her head and look at what you’re looking at.
The bottom line is this. There are often 2 kinds of cases when meeting women that you can find yourself in: the first situation is that you can control the situation and keep it smoothly as you know how you can approach a woman in proper way and on time, making the woman feel much comfortable with you and do not hate your effort to approach her. The second one is the one where you are not the favorite type of the woman you like and you simply cannot do anything about this. Tip for you: Move away and find another chance with another chick.
Another body language sign that can be used to gauge how interested she is in you is flared nostrils. When a person flairs their nostrils, it shows they are excited, physiologically aroused, and are preparing for something physical. In the right context flared nostrils may be a signal that she is ready and willing to get physical with you and is a sign she wants to be kissed.