When she’s chatting with you, does she nod her head or is she frowning? Frowning can be seen as negative, while nodding is positive. Even better, a triple head nod can be seen as a positive way to discern if she likes you.
Tight Legs: Unlike other crossed leg gestures that show negativity, defensiveness or uncertainty, when women cross their legs in a flirtation environment and don’t use other negative gestures such as crossing their arms, this indicates the female is trying to draw attention to her legs by tightly pressuring one leg firmly against the other to emphasize their high muscle tone. Psychiatrist Dr Albert Scheflen goes on to even suggest that such a gesture is the position a body takes when the person is preparing for sexual performance.
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Above is a picture of a woman wearing an average pair of jeans and yet the way she has placed her hands is a powerful “turn-on” for some men. The reason is that her hands are creating a frame for her Vagina. Although sometimes mistaken for “male” gesture, her hands are actually “spelling-out” what’s on her mind. Her female body language is actually saying: “This is the part of me that I want you to notice. I’m telling you that this area of my body is available for the right man!” It is a confident signal indicating aggressive sexual availability.
I don’t think women do this consciousness or intentionally, it all occurs subconsciously. Courting is usually quite a playful en-devour, but there are females that are quite straight forward about their feelings.
Then why use Axe? There’s still an attraction there that’s from the sense of smell. I for one am still a strong believer in pheremones. (BTW, Axe is horrible, me and all the girls I know think it smells like pepper)
When women feel attracted to you, they are often extremely subtle. However, some are more flirtatious and will intentionally try to convey signs that she she is interested. Here are 21 signs that a woman is possibly showing interest to you through her body language.
Look for mirrored movements. Often, a woman who is interested will subconsciously mirror your movements. This shows that the two of you are on the same wavelength and can thus increase intimacy in the relationship. That’s why dancing is considered intimate or sexy—it forces you to mirror each other’s movements! 
Teaser: If you’re lucky (or unlucky…depends how you look at it) to come across a teaser, this will be the type of girl that uses long cylindrical objects as a form of unconsciously suggesting what may be to come. For instance, she can use a variety of objects while using her thumb and index finger to rub up and down that object, it can also be one of her fingers (sometimes even repetitively taking a ring off and putting it back on), a cigarette, a long dangly earring, the stem of a glass, a straw and, well, you get the picture. In the example picture on the left you have Angelina Jolie doing a Vagina Mouth + Teaser combo symbolically using her finger as something else (aka. a penis).
If you catch a woman staring at you but she looks away quickly, it doesn’t always mean she isn’t into you. A lot of women are nervous or insecure; they won’t directly stare right at you without breaking eye contact.
When women become sexually aroused, the nervous system sends the body into overdrive. This results in the body increasing its metabolism. As the heart rate rises, the body begins to consumer more oxygen and its temperature rises. The body begins to have a flushed appearance as blood vessels dilate in to cool itself. A telltale cue that a woman is becoming excited includes flushing of the cheeks and upper chest near the collar bone. Her palms may also redden and perspire. The body then becomes agitated resulting in fidgeting. We normally read this as nervousness.
When the game ends, I approach the coach, positioning myself on a gentle rise behind the backstop so we’re the same height, and ask for a few minutes of his time. Following Gruenfeld’s advice, I decide to focus on two things: maintaining eye contact and keeping my hands on my hips, elbows out. Although I can feel my pulse in my neck, I’m pretty certain I look self-assured.
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If she is interested, she will tend to subconsciously lean her body towards you. For example, she would try to put her face on one or both hands and lean towards you while she’s listening. It is a scientific fact that all of us would tend to gravitate towards those we are comfortable with and attracted to most of the time.
Leave a space of about 4 feet between you and the woman as you approach her. Researchers at the Social Issues Research Center report that about 4 feet is an acceptable social distance to maintain. When the woman crosses that threshold and closes the space between you, then you can be assured that she is flirting with you.
Body language that shows a girl is nervous can be a great thing to see. After all, if a girl is nervous it can be a sign she likes you and wants to make a good impression. It also gives you a chance to help her calm those nerves – which is a surefire way to get a girl to like you and want to be around you more often.
You see, during the first few seconds of your approach, a woman could care less about the actual words you say to her – unless it’s something incredibly weird or creepy, that is. The reason for this is because her mind will be too busy processing your body language and the non-verbal cues that you are giving out. And throughout your interaction she will always – even if it’s on a subconscious level – be observing and dissecting these non-verbal cues.
Researchers at the Harvard Business School report that body language often is more reliable than spoken words. While much of the body language that comes into play between men and women is instinctual, men can learn how to read female body language in flirting and make sure they interpret the signs correctly.
Give it time, surround yourself by the right environments and conditions to meet interesting women (common interest websites or forums, charity groups are places to start, charity groups especially have kind hearted and warm people that are great to meet).
However, before exploring the progression of signals it is vital to be able to recognise some of the basics. For most men “seeing” even the most simple of signals can be challenge. Fear of rejection is the reason. This page should help with reading female body language.
To some degree I feel that you’re right in that many aspects of mens masculinity is learned rather than evolved. Crying for instance is perfectly natural in many cultures for men. But I’ve tried to keep the entire body language series to mainly innate qualities within humans rather than learned ones :).
If you walked up to a woman, started talking to her by raising your pitch, batting your eyelashes and twirling your hair, she might think you were a little strange to say the least. And while there’s absolutely nothing threatening about a woman touching you, you touching her the wrong way can get you slapped or worse. That’s because men and women each have distinct ways they flirt. What works for women doesn’t work for men and vice versa.
If she is sitting, she will now sit straight; emphasizing her breasts and crossing her legs to display them to the best advantage. If she is standing, she will tilt her hips to highlight the nice curve in her back, and she will tilt her head to expose her bare neck. She will also straighten her clothes, flick her hair and even lick her lips.
If you’re having a conversation with a woman who leans into you, as if drawn to you, then chances are she truly is drawn to you! If you’re sitting by a table she might be leaning her torso over the table, so as to get closer to you. If standing next to her and chatting, her body is tilted towards you.
Any facial expression can briefly appear as a microexpression. If a woman is happy but trying to conceal it, it’s only a matter of time until a smile briefly flashes across her face. If she’s trying to hide a negative emotion that will eventually be revealed as well. She may briefly crinkle her nose (the sign for disgust) or curl just one corner of her lip back (contempt). If you see a microexpression that suggests one of these negative emotions it’s probably time to change environments or topic of conversation.
I don’t know seems like a relationship with a woman is overrated when I was young I wished I could get a girlfriend and I finally did and it was great and blissful, women are so hard to hold on to because they know they are a commodity, Men are not a commodity unless you are warren beatty or something eventually you will lose your woman because it happens to all men
I finally introduced myself to this girl I like in the gym I see all the time. We locked eyes for about 4 seconds at one point a while ago and thought maybe she was interested too from that. After going up to her she smiled a lot and laughed at something I said. Is this a good sign she is interested and my second question is by me going up to her finally does she know that is interest from me?