If she is sitting, she will now sit straight; emphasizing her breasts and crossing her legs to display them to the best advantage. If she is standing, she will tilt her hips to highlight the nice curve in her back, and she will tilt her head to expose her bare neck. She will also straighten her clothes, flick her hair and even lick her lips.
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If she is doing something she has done a thousand times before, but it looks as if it requires additional concentration, she might be caught in a fright response. This in turn causes her to freeze or alter her thought pattern causing her to fumble over her task. Imagine taking a draw from a cigarette. She raises her hand to her mouth, catches a glimpse of a man she fancies, pauses stiff, looks down, then after a moment takes a drag. She has been caught in a thought, and her body has triggered a protective fear response. Under normal circumstances, she would simply carry on, but when intimidated by a thought of attraction, her mind froze her body to protect it from drawing attention to itself.
I never knew about the wrists before however. I’ve never noticed them pointed towards me, though ive encountered a few looks from women as if to suggest they’d stab me to death if they had a knife however!
There are literally dozens of ways that a woman uses her body language to communicate her interest and attraction to a man. Reading female body language can be simple or complex but the real trick is recognising clusters and progressions.
I don’t think women do this consciousness or intentionally, it all occurs subconsciously. Courting is usually quite a playful en-devour, but there are females that are quite straight forward about their feelings.
I have a job that takes me all over the world. I often go to local bar and clubs to hang out. And being single, I usually sit at the bar. Quiet often, a couple will come in and sit next to me. It seems like the women always ends up next to me, I don’t plan it that way. I consider myself both attractive and approachable. So I often start up a conversation with the couple. As the night goes on, and the women gets more intoxicated, almost always, she will end up touching me with her leg. Being a gentleman, I will assume it is an accident and make adjustments. But more often than not, she will then make another attempt to touch legs (again under the bar where her partner can’t see). Being somewhat bright/intuned, I will then keep it still. From that point on, anything can happen. It may simply be a turn on and at the end of the night, we go our separate ways. Sometimes, the woman will ask for my number when her partner is in the bathroom. And a few times, I’ve actually hooked up close by. It’s simply amazes me how something that seems so innocent at first can fan the flames.
This is both subtle and obvious at the same time. Essentially it means: “I’m stroking and touching myself because I’d really like to be stroked and touched by you”. Also, by touching herself in this way a woman draws a man’s attention to those erogenous zones that she thinks are her best assets and will appeal to him. Thighs, neck and ankles are all favourites. It is fair to say that women are very aware of the way that this subconsciously affects men and will do it deliberately. Where it is subconscious it is a truly reliable indicator of a woman’s feelings.
Smiling can sometimes be sexual, but accompanying signals must be cataloged to create certainty. Women will smile for a great variety of reasons and will smile regularly to appease men for no other reason besides habit. Smiling is a natural part of being a woman and while smiling alone is submissive, it doesn’t necessarily indicate sexual interest. Accompanying signals must adjoin smiling for it to be a true sexual signal.
A woman who doesn’t enjoy your company is unlikely to be into you, whereas one who does is likely to be, whether as a friend, or more. The easiest way of showing we like someone’s company is to smile. Of course it depends on what topics we talk to someone about (deep revealing details about your terrible childhood probably won’t make her smile, while great jokes will make her smile whether she’s attracted to you or not!), but smiling tends to happen naturally when we speak to someone whose company we enjoy.
Stop believing you need some obvious sign of approval or else you’ll miss out on many opportunities. Most women know if they’re attracted to you within five minutes. Yet the majority won’t start flirting until you do. They’ll wait for you to take the lead.
It’s like her free will to conceal her attraction you is stripped away and she her mating instincts obligate her to tell you that she is attracted to you. These tells are one of God, the universe or whatever’s greatest gifts to man.
Now this might sound a bit worrying to some men, but here’s the cool thing; even while a woman is observing your body language, she will be giving out non-verbal cues of her own that are intended to let you know if she’s attracted to you or not. It’s almost like having little sign-posts to help guide you towards seduction junction. The trick is in learning to reading these signs. So in today’s article I want to dissect and help you understand the basics of female body language.
Lips become the center of attention – Face is surely the first thing that you notice about someone first. Lip-biting just makes it possible by drawing attention towards the lips. This will intrigue the person you like.
Gravity-defying gestures can be seen in multiple parts of the body. For instance, one common body language example of a gravity-defying gesture is the eyebrow flash. If a girl is excited her eyebrows will automatically shoot up for a brief instant (you often see this when someone is surprised/happy to see you).
Whenever you are flirting with a woman if you notice that she seems to be getting closer and closer to you in terms of physical proximity, take that as a definite sign of attraction and comfort. More often than not this is an invitation to intensify your flirting. In such an instance open up your posture a bit and give her the chance to “find herself” getting closer and closer to you.
These actions could also indicate that she’s nervous and excited at the same time. She considers playing things an outlet to that sexual tension. If she uses her fingers to caress her neck, her collarbones or lips – zones which are considered erogenous, then there’s a fat chance that she’s interested in you. This should be a great news!
Contrary to what you may have read elsewhere about reading female body language, there is no sure-fire way of perfectly understanding these courtship gestures every time. Women may project them consciously (and sometimes just for sport), or they may be totally unaware of what their bodies are saying. A woman may even show physical interest through her body language because she subconsciously wants to be desired while actually rejecting a suitor because she is consciously aware that she is married. This is self reassurance behaviour.
Pointing: As previously mentioned, our legs are the part of the body that is furthest away from the brain and therefore the area we are least aware of. When women or men feel interest in someone they will start pointing at them either with their feet (usually their lead walking foot or both) while standing, or their knee while sitting. How a persons shows interest in another when sitting down is achieved by tucking one leg under the other – the tucked-under-legs knee will be pointing towards the direction of the person they feel attracted to.
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Don’t take his lack of action personally and give up. Check your body language to see if you are sending any negative cues, like hiding your breasts with crossed arms. This says, “You can’t see I’m a woman. Go away.” You need to have all your body language cues sending an inviting message, so be sure to face him directly and openly without your arms crossed over your breasts. This says, “See; I am a woman and not defensive!”
Love signals through body language are often tough to interpret. For instance, if she’s staring into your eyes and hanging on your every word, does it mean she’s romantically interested in you? Perhaps, but it may just she’s a good listener and you’re a good talker.
Smart women can start a conversation with strangers simply by eye contact. But it is a very special type of eye contact and men always fall for this type eye contact from women. Both men and women know that a lingering eye contact with a slight smile is an invitation for a closer connection.
A woman who is interested in a man might do things like playfully grab his arm, poke him, bump into him or touch his chest, shoulder or leg. There are many possibilities here. The girl in question will look for any excuse to touch you.
The direction where her knee is pointing can also signify certain meanings. It can suggest desire if her knee points at you. It can indicate the opposite if her knee points away from you. She may consciously or unconsciously point her cross-legged knee, regardless if she is sitting or standing while chatting with someone toward something or someone she is really thinking about.
Oddly, a limp wrist or exposed wrists are a sign of submission and both women and homosexual men tend to do this subconsciously when in a room with people they want to attract. This is why while smoking, many women hold the cigarette with one wrist turned out and exposed.
Check out her heartbeat. If you are comfortable enough with each other to cuddle, put your head on her chest. If her heart is racing, she’s really interested. If you’re not comfortable enough to get close to her heart, check out her wrist pulse. Lightly grab her hand and rest a finger on her wrist. This is difficult to master, but if you can pin down a racing heart, you have a pretty good sign that she’s very into you.