“how to read female body language during date”

Gruenfeld and her colleagues have likewise found that when people strike a power pose, they perceive themselves as being physically stronger and taller than they really are. Other researchers have discovered that adopting an expansive posture can even increase a person’s tolerance for pain.

I enjoyed your article. I was glad you included the wrist display and the “Insightful purse” gestures. Both are highly accurate attraction gestures. I thought I might add one gesture I was surprised wasn’t expounded on more.

Does it seem like one moment she’s at a normal standing or sitting position from you, and then suddenly she’s right in front of you? This is a sign that she’s becoming enthralled with you. You may have just said something funny or witty and she wants to get closer to you.

A woman who is interested in a man might do things like playfully grab his arm, poke him, bump into him or touch his chest, shoulder or leg. There are many possibilities here. The girl in question will look for any excuse to touch you.

A Quick-Tip – Whenever you see her hugging herself, get close to her, hug her, comfort her, and possibly bring ice-cream. This will surely cheer her up and she is more likely to tell you what made her feel that way.

#8 Cocks her brow. This is a relatively grey area but definitely worth looking into. I call it a grey area because a girl cocking her brow doesn’t necessarily indicate that she likes you. This action has to be coupled with something else. For example, a cocked eyebrow and a smile has you in the clear but a cocked brow with pursed lips should be sign that you should run for the hills.

A follow-up study by Moore and Butler (1989) evaluated some of these behaviors more thoroughly. In this case, the researchers were interested in finding out which of these flirting and “solicitation” behaviors actually worked to get men to approach. The team again camped out in bars — this time observing the differences in behavior between single women who were approached by a man versus women who did not get approached.

Speaking about feet, I do tend to have my feet always pointed at my husband, this is why I found the “knee” pointing confusing as I usually have my knees pointed away from him since my feet are aimed at him. After reading this I’m going to see if other women do use their knees like that, or if they’re like me and the knee’s pointing the opposite direction because the foot is closer to the one you like.

Make sure when you’re watching that special girl that you’re keeping one eye out (or two!) for these signals because by reading in to them and knowing when and how to act you will make yourself much more successful than simply changing your own behavior ever will.

Most guys would love to know for sure if a gorgeous woman they see across a room is attracted to them. Knowing how to read the mysterious female body language signs of attraction is a valuable skill that can be learned (and used to great advantage)!

People certainly think about the facial expressions they make, but they don’t think too much about what their feet are doing. This is why the feet are so important in reading body language. Women can definitely fake certain facial expressions, but they don’t purposely fake what their feet are saying. 

I have a little experiment that I want you to try out. The next time you have a great conversation with a woman you just met and feel that she’s definitely attracted to you, ask her if she remembers what the first thing you said to her was. Not to knock your ego or your brilliant opener here, but the chances are that 90% of the time, she won’t have a damn clue. Don’t worry, this isn’t because your opener wasn’t good enough or you weren’t memorable enough. It’s because women pay far more attention to body language and non-verbal communication than men ever do.

Note physical contact. Everyone has a personal “bubble” of about 18 inches (45.7 cm). If she gets into your personal space, or even finds excuses to touch you, you can bet she’s interested. Be ready for any “tests” she might make for herself—stepping into your personal space to let someone walk past, touching your arm as a condolence when you’re sad, or putting her hand on your knee to emphasize that she finds you funny are all quick breakdowns of the physical barriers to see how you react.

Although there are things that are just “human” and a burnt into our existance, I think behaviour might change depending on the society we live in. Citing a study from 1985 and 1989 and especially citing only one study (!) seems be a little far from reality nowadays. I appreciate the effort and the overlook, but I would have loved to see a more thorough and current study. Therefore, thanks for the effort, I can’t take everything seriously though. Best, B.

Thus, a woman whose pupils become particularly large when looking specifically at a man is probably aroused. This might explain why we seek dimly lit places for intimacy as it causes the eye to dilate further amplifying the romance.

Researchers at the Harvard Business School report that body language often is more reliable than spoken words. While much of the body language that comes into play between men and women is instinctual, men can learn how to read female body language in flirting and make sure they interpret the signs correctly.

Unconsciously, he will be eager to please you and say, “Thank you for not making me look like a failed hunter!” This is all going on at an unconscious level. At a conscious level, he is probably aware that everyone is watching him. He will do everything to show everyone there that you accepted him eagerly. Often this is done by offering you something like a drink, food, or cigarette so that you will reach out and accept it. That is a symbolic gesture indicating that you accepted him. At this moment, it is extremely important for him to show the world that he is not a failed hunter and a useless pile of mastodon crap. That is how he would feel if you rejected him now in front of everyone there.

Any facial expression can briefly appear as a microexpression.  If a woman is happy but trying to conceal it, it’s only a matter of time until a smile briefly flashes across her face.  If she’s trying to hide a negative emotion that will eventually be revealed as well.  She may briefly crinkle her nose (the sign for disgust) or curl just one corner of her lip back (contempt).  If you see a microexpression that suggests one of these negative emotions it’s probably time to change environments or topic of conversation.

My other problem would definitely be,. (other than being autistic), i’ve never wanted kids. I can’t tolerate them so maybe women deep down know this and just hate my guts with a passion as a result? haha!

Boob Shoulder: As I mentioned in the first paragraph, what we define as being “sexy” or “hot” is our male and female gender differences, which in women is mostly composed of having more curvaceous bodies than men.  A form of highlighting this fact is a gesture known as the Boob Shoulder, where women will choose to look at men (in the first parts of courtships before meeting) sideways while raising their shoulder slightly upwards, symbolically making it appear like a breast to emphasize their femininity.